A Statement Regarding the Death of Sonya Massey
* Content Note: Death of Sonya Massey
The tragic shooting death of Sonya Massey by a sheriff’s deputy in Springfield, Illinois following her call for help was unjust. These occurrences happen far too frequently in our country and have a profound impact on many of us, especially our black and brown community members. No one should ever need to consider whether calling for help will result in violence or murder by those called to provide that help. As an organization that provides support to children and families of all races and backgrounds impacted by sexual and physical abuse, we stand for racial justice and against violence.
As part of this effort, the CAC strives to be a welcoming and safe environment for children and families of all races, ethnicities, and backgrounds. To this end, one of the core values of the CAC is Equity and Inclusion. To live up to that value, we:
- embrace and honor the diversity and cultural identities of our team, families, and community while acknowledging the presence of privileges and biases.
- actively work to unlearn our biases, practice cultural humility, and hold each other and systems accountable.
- strive to make our center and services accessible and welcoming to all regardless of their race, culture, gender, sexuality, age, ability, citizenship, language, nationality, religion, socio-economic status, or any other characteristics or identities.
- are committed to dismantling systems of oppression and centering the voices of those most impacted by those systems in our discussions and decisions.
Our partners at YW Boston shared the following helpful advice for taking care of yourself, your loved ones, and your colleagues as we navigate this challenging time:
- Do not watch or share the body cam footage of Sonya Massey’s murder: Exposure to violent and traumatic content, especially repeatedly, can have significant negative effects on mental health. Witnessing such traumatic events can cause vicarious trauma. This is especially pertinent for people who share a racial or cultural identity with the victims, as it can feel like an assault on their community.
- Practice informed consent and fair warning: If you want to talk about this or other stressful news with a coworker, first ask them clearly and gently if they have the capacity to discuss the specific topic. If they do not, it is critical to thank them for letting you know and identify another support person with which to connect.
- Respect individual needs: Grief and trauma affect everyone differently. Some may want to talk about their feelings, while others may prefer space and solitude. Respect each person's way of coping.
- Foster solidarity: Use this moment to reaffirm your commitment to eliminating racism, empowering women, and standing together against racism and injustice.
- Practice self-care: Give yourself permission to rest and recharge. Take part in activities that make you feel good, such as exercise, laughing with a friend, or creating art. And don’t forget to tap into your organization’s self-care and mental health resources.
Please take good care of yourself and your community as we all continue to navigate these difficult and challenging events.